I’m going to make a shameless plug in this part of the story. For anyone who is not part of a church, you may not quite understand the full force of this, but trust me, for those of us who are part of a church (especially the Seventh-day Adventist church), it’s big.
When I was down here in June of 2011, I attended a church near my friend Ximena’s house. Everyone was so friendly, and immediately asked if I would be around for a while. Lamentably that wasn’t the case. Just before I came down here this time I wrote to the church to ask if there were any churches close to where I was going to be. I got an e-mail back from a certain Pablo, the church secretary, who informed me that there were 3 churches nearby, including this one. As I mentioned before, I went to the church in Los Condes the first Sabbath and found the congregation… aged, to put it nicely. So the following Sabbath I found how to get to the church at Ñuñoa, and found that though farther, it was significantly easier to get to. So I hopped on the bus the following Sabbath and got to church.
It was a similar drill when I got there. Everyone came up to me to ask where I was from, how long I would be there, and how I heard about the church. When I mentioned Pablo to one of the Sabbath school teachers she immediately knew who I was referring to and flagged him down. So I met Pablo and his wife Gabriela, two absolutely charming and humble people. Before the end of the service I had an invitation to lunch for the following Sabbath from Marilda and Edwin. This couple is also so much fun and so loving. Edwin is from Bolivia and Marilda is from Brazil, and she is an AMAZING cook! Their daughter Naheli immediately took to calling me tía (auntie) and started making fun of my Argentinean accent.
Another thing that goes unappreciated outside of the church is what a close connection you have to people ANYWHERE in the world. What they refer to as the 6 degrees of separation is shortened to about 3-4 degrees within the Adventist church. That first Sabbath I was introduced to the youth leader, Edgar, a tall Argentinean man, and he mentioned that I looked really familiar. I mentioned that I had spent a year at the Adventist university in Argentina, and he said that he hadn’t been there in ten years so that couldn’t be it, but then mentioned that he had a cousin there. I asked his cousin’s name and he answered, “Milton.” I asked if this Milton was by any chance married to a Romina, which he answered affirmatively. It turns out that his cousin’s wife is a friend of mine. Immediate connection! There’s something unfathomably comforting to walk into a place and find out you have those kind of links to the people.
The second weekend I went to Marilda and Edwin’s house for lunch, and another family was also there, and after lunch we went to an aviation museum that was free to enter. There was a park in back and we sat around under the wing of an old plane while Naheli and the other family’s little girl ran around, and in the evening we went to the youth service, where Edwin talked to the lady in charge of the music ministry and convinced her (and me) that I should do special music the next week.
So I found myself singing special music at the end of Sabbath school the following Sabbath, where it was announced in front of the church that it was my last Sabbath in Chile, and I was told to send many greetings back to my church in California. So MUCHOS SALUDOS to the CV SDA Church! Your brethren in Santiago send you all a big hug!
Pablo and Gabriela invited me to their house on the last two Sunday’s of my trip to “tomar once” (elevensies, which actually isn’t at eleven o’clock, but more like 5 p.m.). They were the most welcoming family, so kind, and their son Alexander was very interested in the differences between the U.S. and Chile, so both times we ended up chatting until 10 p.m., when I had to rush home before the metro closed down for the night. The family is strongly encouraging me to come back to Santiago for work because they say that my profile (young with multiple languages and an M.A.) means that I would very easily find a job down here and live beyond comfortably. They then told me about a lady from the church who works for FAO and recently got a short-term job in Rome at the FAO headquarters, and then Pablo put me in contact with her. She and I have since exchanged a few messages, and she seems really sweet. I hope that someday I get to meet her in person. I felt so welcomed by them, and they promised that they would be here for me when I come back, whenever that may be.
Both times I went to their house for once Sara and Dan and Sylvia came to me afterward and asked where I had been because they had hardly seen me all day. They were surprised to hear that I had made so many friends
I also met a retired pastor, Pastor Mayr, who attends the church, and he and his wife were also so welcoming. They invited me for lunch on the last Sabbath of my stay, but I had already made plans to go with Marilda and Edwin again, otherwise I would have accepted. The pastor’s parting words to me were “A la tercera va la vencida”, which basically means “Third time’s a charm”, alluding to the fact I’ve been to Chile twice, the third time might be when I decide to stay.
So why do I say all this? Not just because these people were awesomely warm and welcoming and kind to me, but because I want to recognize how wonderful it is to belong to something so huge. The church isn’t just a bunch of people that get together once a week; it’s the body of Christ, and we should be taking care of one another. I’ve been to other churches outside of the Adventist church that don’t have the huge network we do, and I’ve left feeling, “Well that was nice, but there’s no connection.” But I know that almost anywhere I go in the world, there is a place to meet with brothers and sisters in Christ and even if they don’t immediately invite me to their homes after church they will always welcome me with open arms. That was probably the best thing I learned while in Chile.
